Your Daily Reprieve 07.24.26

 

Your Daily Reprieve for Friday July 24, 2024   From Waynesville, NC

Twist on The Pickle Story: You can turn a cucumber into a pickle You can't turn a pickle back into a cucumber But you can turn a pickle into a Newcomer     "For peace of mind, we need to resign as general manager of the universe." --Larry Eisenberg     ... and your case is similar but different. And it’s that difference that will kill you. Trying to hold out some claim to unique alcoholic ground is a sure way to not succeed. -- Sandy Beach, Saturday Morning Live, Step 4, 1994   The best compliment to children or friends is the feeling you give them that they have been set free to make their own inquiries, to come to conclusions that are right for them, whether or not they coincide with your own. ~Alistair Cooke

Big Book Quote   I placed myself unreservedly under His care and direction.   P13

Daily Share!   AA Speaker of the Day   YVONNE N. Arcadia, OK. 6th Annual Fall Classic St. Louis, MO 09.01.1989   https://bit.ly/4ptlYvN

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12&12   Step Four - "Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves." Of course the depressive and the power-driver are personality extremes, types with which A.A. and the whole world abound. Often these personalities are just as sharply defined as the examples given. But just as often some of us will fit more or less into both classifications. Human beings are never quite alike, so each of us, when making an inventory, will need to determine what his individual character defects are. Having found the shoes that fit, he ought to step into them and walk with new confidence that he is at last on the right track. p. 48

Twenty-Four Hours   A.A. Thought For The Day A.A. is like a dike, holding back the ocean of liquor. If we take one glass of liquor, it is like making a small hole in the dike and once such a hole has been made, the whole ocean of alcohol may rush in upon us. By practicing the A.A. principles we keep the dike strong and in repair. We spot any weakness or crack in that dike and make the necessary repairs before any damage is done. Outside the dike is the whole ocean of alcohol, waiting to engulf us again in despair. Am I keeping the dike strong? Meditation For The Day Keep as close as you can to the Higher Power. Try to think, act, live as though you were always in God's presence. Keeping close to a Power greater than yourself is the solution to most of the earth's problems. Try to practice the presence of God in the things you think and do. That is the secret of personal power. It is the thing that influences the lives of others for good. Abide in the Lord and rejoice in His love. Keep close to the Divine Spirit in the universe. Keep God close behind your thoughts. Prayer For The Day I pray that I may keep close to the Mind of God. I pray that I may live with Him in my heart and mind.

Daily Thought ^*^*^*^*^ (\    ~~    /) (    \(AA)/    ) (_ /AA\ _) / AA \ ^*^*^*^*^ Arrogance "I am a firm believer in both guidance and prayer. But I am fully aware, and humble enough, I hope, to see there may be nothing infallible about my guidance. The minute I figure I have got a perfectly clear pipeline to God, I have become egotistical enough to get into real trouble. Nobody can cause more needless grief than a power-driver who thinks he has got it straight from God." Bill W., Letter, 1950 As Bill Sees It, p. 38 Thought to Consider . . . The smallest package in the world is an alcoholic wrapped up in just themselves. *~*AACRONYMS*~* I S M I Sponsor Myself

Daily Reflection   HELPING OTHERS Our very lives, as ex-problem drinkers, depend upon our constant thought of others and how we may help meet their needs. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 20   Self-centeredness was my problem. All my life people had been doing things for me and I not only expected it, but I was ungrateful and resentful they didn't do more. Why should I help others, when they were supposed to help me? If others had troubles, didn't they deserve them? I was filled with self-pity, anger and resentment. Then I learned that by helping others, with no thought of return, I could overcome this obsession with selfishness, and if I understood humility, I would know peace and serenity. No longer do I need to drink.

Pot Luck   Walk In Dry Places Flattery or Praise?   Human relations   Flattery and praise are social lubricants that serve human purposes. But flattery is merely manipulative, while genuine praise is beneficial to everybody.   Many of us with troubled back grounds also have trouble giving and accepting praise.Sometimes we mistake flattery for praise and use it either to manipulate otehs or allow ourselves to bemanipulated. Perhaps we're either too proud or too self-conscious to deal with real praise.     Another mistake is in believing that praise should be given out only sparingly, only after outstanding achievement. Not so, we need to give and receive praise continuously in order to reach higher levels of achievement. Knowing it's importance, we'll alsolearn howto avoid flattery.     I'll offer both verbal and silent praise today in my dealing with others. We'll all benefit from it.

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