Your Daily Reprieve 05.19.26

 

Your Daily Reprieve for Tuesday May 19, 2026   Waynesville, NC

The boy and girl going hand in hand through a meadow; the mother washing her baby; the sweet simple things in life.  We have almost lost track of them.  On the one side, we over-intellectualize everything; on the other hand, we are over-mechanized.  We can understand the danger of the atomic bomb,  but the danger of our misunderstanding the meaning of life is much more serious.    -Edward Steichen     Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication. -Leonardo da Vinci     We may fight against what is wrong, but if we allow ourselves to hate, that is to insure our spiritual defeat  and our likeness to what we hate. -George William Russell     Meet hatred with hatred and you degrade yourself.  Meet hatred with love and you not only elevate yourself but also the person who bears you hatred. -Ralph Waldo Trine

BIG BOOK QUOTE   There is a solution. Almost none of us liked the self-searching, the leveling of our pride, the confession of shortcomings which the process requires for its successful consummation.   P25

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12&12   Foreword As A.A. now enters maturity, it has begun to reach into forty foreign lands.* In the view of its friends, this is but the beginning of its unique and valuable service. It is hoped that this volume will afford all who read it a close-up view of the principles and forces which have made Alcoholics Anonymous what it is. (A.A.'s General Service Office may be reached by writing: Alcoholics Anonymous, P.O. Box 459, Grand Central Station, New York, NY 10163, U.S.A.) *In 1998, A.A. is established in 150 countries. p. 18

Twenty-Four Hours  A.A. Thought For The Day Fellowship is a big part of staying sober. The doctors call it group therapy. We never go to an A.A. meeting without taking something out of it. Sometimes we don't feel like going to a meeting and we think of excuses for not going. But we usually end up by going anyway and we always get some lift out of every meeting. Meetings are part of keeping sober. And we get more out of a meeting if we try to contribute something to it. Am I contributing my share at meetings? Meditation For The Day "He brought me up out of a horrible pit, out of the miry clay, and set my feet upon a rock and established my goings." The first part, "He brought me up out of a horrible pit," means that by turning to God and putting my problems in His hands, I am able to overcome my sins and temptations. "He set my feet upon a rock" means that when I trust God in all things, I have true security. "He established my goings" means that if I honestly try to live the way God wants me to live, I will have God's guidance in my daily living. Prayer For The Day I pray that my feet may be set upon a rock. I pray that I may rely on God to guide my comings and goings.

Daily Thought ^*^*^*^*^ (\    ~~    /) (    \(AA)/    ) (_ /AA\ _) / AA \ ^*^*^*^*^ Steps & Traditions A.A.'s Twelve Steps are a group of principles, spiritual in their nature, which, if practiced as a way of life, can expel the obsession to drink and enable the sufferer to become happily and usefully whole. A.A.'s Twelve Traditions apply to the life of the Fellowship itself. They outline the means by which A.A. maintains its unity and relates itself to the world about it, the way it lives and grows. c. 1952 AAWS, Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, p. 15 Thought to Consider . . . The Steps protect me from myself; the Traditions protect A.A. from me.   *~*AACRONYMS*~* A L C O H O L I C S A Life Centered On Helping Others Live In Complete Sobriety

DAILY REFLECTIONS   GIVING WITHOUT STRINGS And he well knows that his own life has been made richer, as an extra dividend of giving to another without any demand for a return. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 69   The concept of giving without strings was hard to understand when I first came into the program. I was suspicious when others wanted to help me. I thought, "What do they want in return?" But I soon learned the joy of helping another alcoholic and I understood why they were there for me in the beginning. My attitudes changed and I wanted to help others. Sometimes I became anxious, as I wanted them to know the joys of sobriety, that life can be beautiful. When my life is full of a loving God of my understanding and I give that love to my fellow alcoholic, I feel a special richness that is hard to explain.

POT LUCK   Only that action is just which does not harm either party to a dispute. ~Mahatma Gandhi We may find ourselves engaged in a dispute and determined at all costs to impose our solution, even though we know it may harm our opponent. We don't really want a solution at all; we want revenge. The desire to harm others may derive from feeling that we have been hurt, as children perhaps. We may have been neglected and misunderstood, or even abused and assaulted. So the world owes us something and we mean to collect. We may even bear grudges against successful people, not because they have done us wrong, but merely because they are successful. We need to let our shame and sorrow out into the clear light of day. By opening ourselves up to others, we will surely find that we can defuse our anger and our desire to hurt others. We can stand on an equal footing with others and have no more need for resentment and revenge. I know that I am gradually getting rid of the secret shame that causes me to act out of anger and vindictiveness. Today's reading is from the book Answers in the Heart: Daily Meditations for Men and Women Recovering from Sex Addiction*

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