Your Daily Reprieve 04.18.26

 

 

Your Daily Reprieve for Saturday April 18, 2026   From Waynesville, NC

“In AA we have no VIPs, nor have we need of any. Our organization needs no title-holders nor grandiose buildings ... Experience has taught us that simplicity is basic in preservation of our personal sobriety and helping those in need.” AA Co-Founder, Dr. Bob, September 1948   "Faith is unseen but felt, faith is strength when we feel we have none, faith is hope when all seems lost." ~Catherine Pulsifer   When you begin a journey of revenge, start by digging two graves: one for your enemy, and one for yourself.     -Jodi Picoult   This day is not a rehearsal. It is real. What you choose to do with it will have lasting consequences for you and for those around you. It is an awesome responsibility and a tremendous opportunity.  Give it the best that you have. --Ralph Marston

BIG BOOK QUOTE   Our human resources, as marshalled by the will, were not sufficient; they failed utterly.   P45

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12&12   Tradition Twelve - "Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our traditions, ever reminding us to place principles before personalities." As a rule, the average newcomer wanted his family to know immediately what he was trying to do. He also wanted to tell others who had tried to help him--his doctor, his minister, and close friends. As he gained confidence, he felt it right to explain his new way of life to his employer and business associates. When opportunities to be helpful came along, he found he could talk easily about A.A. to almost anyone. These quiet disclosures helped him to lose his fear of the alcoholic stigma, and spread the news of A.A.'s existence in his community. Many a new man and woman came to A.A. because of such conversations. Though not in the strict letter of anonymity, such communications were well within its spirit. pp. 185-186

Twenty-Four Hours  A.A. Thought For The Day As I look back over my drinking career, have I learned that you take out of life what you put into it? When I put drinking into my life, did I take out a lot of bad things? Hospitals with the D.T.'s? Jails for drunken driving? Loss of job? Loss of home and family? When I put drinking into my life, was almost everything I took out bad? Meditation For The Day I should strive for a friendliness and helpfulness that will affect all who come near to me. I should try to see something to love in them. I should welcome them, bestow little courtesies and understandings on them, and help them if they ask for help. I must send no one away without a word of cheer, a feeling that I really care about them. God may have put the impulse in some despairing one's mind to come to me. I must not fail God by repulsing that person. They may not want to communicate with me unless they are sure of a warm welcome. Prayer For The Day I pray that I may warmly welcome all who come to me for help. I pray that I may make them feel that I really care.

Daily Thought ^*^*^*^*^ (\    ~~    /) (     \(AA)/     ) (_ /AA\ _) /AA\ ^*^*^*^*^ Unity In many self-governing countries we are now seeing the inroads of ignorance, apathy, and power-seeking upon democratic systems. Their spiritual resources of right purpose and collective intelligence are waning. Consequently, many a land has become so helpless that the only answer is dictatorship. Happily for us, there seems little prospect of such a calamity in A.A. The life of each individual and of each group is built around our Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions. We very well know that the penalty for extensive disobedience to these principles is death for the individual and dissolution for the group. An even greater force for A.A.'s unity is in the compelling love that we have for our fellow members and for the principles upon which our lives today are founded. Bill W. c. 1962 AAWS Twelve Concepts for World Service, 26th printing,  p. 8 Thought to Consider . . . Only those who see the invisible can accomplish the impossible. *~*AACRONYMS*~* F E A R Fools Every Alcoholic Repeatedly

DAILY REFLECTIONS   SELF-HONESTY The deception of others is nearly always rooted in the deception of ourselves. . . . When we are honest with another person, it confirms that we have been honest with ourselves and with God. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 17 When I was drinking, I deceived myself about reality, rewriting it to what I wanted it to be. Deceiving others is a character defect—even if it is just stretching the truth a bit or cleaning up my motives so others would think well of me. My Higher Power can remove this character defect, but first I have to help myself become willing to receive that help by not practicing deception. I need to remember each day that deceiving myself about myself is setting myself up for failure or disappointment in life and in Alcoholics Anonymous. A close, honest relationship with a Higher Power is the only solid foundation I've found for honesty with self and with others.

POT LUCK   Walk In Dry Places   Mental Arguments are bad Thinking   Serenity    Again and again we hear that bad thinking and drinking are linked together. Bad thinking is any line of thought that tends to be destructive.  Mental arguments are in that class because they destroy peace of mind and self-control.  We can avoid them by learning acceptance and maintaining serenity at all costs.  Sometimes we engage in mental arguments with those who seem to have defeated us or put us down. This only gives more life to the hurt we have been feeling: in effect, we cooperate in hurting ourselves repeatedly.  Even the satisfaction of letting ourselves "win" the mental argument doesn't really settle the matter.      We can maintain our serenity in all situations by accepting people as they are.  We are not responsible for changing their opinions.  We must also accept and dismiss past mistakes and failures, no matter who was at fault.  We owe it to ourselves not to destroy another moment's happiness with futile mental arguments that serve no good purpose in our lives.    Once we dismiss mental arguments, we can give our time and attention to things that really matter.     I will not waste a single second on any kid of mental argument.  Anything another person said or did is forgiven and forgotten, and it has no power to hurt me a second time.

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