Your Daily Reprieve 04.09.26

 

 

 

Your Daily Reprieve for Thursday April 9, 2026

 

From Waynesville, NC

 

 

Happiness is not a reward - it is a consequence.

Suffering is not a punishment - it is a result.

~Robert Green Ingersoll

 

 

“ A man of word and not of deeds

is like a garden full of weeds”

(thanks Phil B.)

 

 

“A friend of mine told me about going to see the Statue of Liberty on a field trip with his grammar school class. He said that as they walked up the long spiral staircase, they all held hands in a line. He couldn't see the person at the beginning or the end of the line but he felt safe. He knew he was connected to the rest of his schoolmates. That's the way it is in AA. We can't see the people at either end of the line. But we know they're there -- and we know we're safe.”

~ Tujunga, California, December 1997, AA Grapevine

 

 

"Make me sensitive to see opportunities of service."

-- Tom I.

 

BIG BOOK QUOTE

 

We have shown how we got out from under. You say, "Yes, I'm willing. But am I to be consigned to a life where I shall be stupid, boring and glum, like some righteous people I see? I know I must get along without liquor, but how can I? Have you a sufficient substitute?"

 

P152

 

 

 

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MARCH 2026 Miracles

 

4/1 Ron F. (Cincinnati, OH)…..49

4/1 Gregory D. (Water Mill, NY)…..9

4/1 Joyce G. (Bradford, Ma)…..38

4/1 Grady S. (Sunnyvale, CA)…..35

4/1 John B. (Greenwich, CT/Stuart, FL)…..45

4/1 Julian G. (Salt Lake City, UT)…..11

4/1 Cary W. (Palm City, FL)…..19

4/1 Michael C. (Los Angeles, CA)…..45

4/1 Brinda L. (Stuart, FL)…..21

4/2 Mark B. (Haiku, HI)…..5

4/3 Leigh A. (Bethesda, MD)…..28

4/4 Tim D. (Seaforth, Ontario)…..15

4/4 Mark S. (Washington, DC)…..21

4/5 Alison I. (Edinburgh, Scotland) …..32

4/5 Elizabeth B. …..21

4/6 Eugene R. (Barcelona, Spain)…..12

4/6 Vige B. (Clinton, NY)…..49

4/6 Nick E. (Devon,UK)…..27

4/7 Madeleine M. (Groveland, MA)…..43

4/7 Louis D. …..1

4/7 Jane T. (Vancouver, BC, Canada)…..40

4/8 John M. (Mendham TWP, NJ)…..35

4/8 Paul K. (Canton, OH)…..22

4/8 Maureen K. (Morristown, NJ)…..16

4/8 Ashley G. (Miami, FL)…..14

4/8 Demetria B. (Memphis, TN)…..1

4/9 Dayton H. (New York, NY)…..36

4/10 Chas T. (Johnston, SC)…..14

4/11 Diane M. (Waynesville, NC)…..18

4/11 Steve O. (Travelers Rest, SC)…..2

4/11 Christine M. (Dingman’s Ferry, PA/Vero Beach)…..17

4/11 Jeremy S. (Austin, TX)…..14

4/12 Lisa S. (Port St. Lucie, FL)…..24

4/13 Lauren E. (NYC)…..13

4/14 Sue B. (Waynesville, NC)…..16

4/14 Rachel K. (Springfield, MA)…..1

4/14 Mark M. (Pinellas Park, FL)…..41

4/15 Erin S. (Nantucket, MA)…..21

4/17 Jay M. (Pepper Pike, OH)…..12

4/17 Vince K. (Palm City, FL)…..

4/17 Jennifer E. (Palm Harbor, FL)…..37

4/17 Rich W. (Evanston, IL)…..9

4/18 Liz A. (Westfield, NJ)…..15

4/19 Joanna J. (Port St. Lucie, FL)…..45

4/19 Brent A. (New Rochelle, NY)…..3

4/20 Frank M. (Kingsland, GA)…..5

4/21 Jackie Z. (Palm Coast, FL)…..45

4/22 Mary D. (Evanston, IL)…..41

4/23 Steve W. (Syracuse/Indialantic, FL)…..21

4/23 Brian L. (Al Khobar, Saudi Arabia)…..37

4/24 Scott G. (Chicago)…..2

4/25 Lesley Anne S. (Las Lunas, NM).….41

4/25 Melissa S. (NYC)…..17

4/26 Sean H. (Greenville, SC)…..2

4/26 Debbie S. (Yulee, FL)…..11

4/27 Norma D. (Bradford, MA)…..15

4/27 Angela L. (Boiling Springs, SC)…..7

4/28 Julie T. (Morristown, NJ)…..13

4/28 Laurie M. (Midcoast, ME)…..41

4/29 Judy F. (Sarasota, FL)…..48

 

1326 Total Years of Sobriety

 

 

 

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12&12

 

 

Tradition Eleven - "Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio, and films."

There was actually a time when the press of America thought the anonymity of A.A. was better for us than some of our own members did. At on point, about a hundred of our Society were breaking anonymity at the public level. With perfectly good intent, these folks declared that the principle of anonymity was horse-an-buggy stuff, something appropriate to A.A.'s pioneering days. They were sure that A.A. could go faster and farther if it availed itself of modern publicity methods. A.A., they pointed out, included many persons of local, national, or international fame. Provided they were willing--and many were--why shouldn't their membership be publicized, thereby encouraging others to join us? These were plausible arguments, but happily our friends of the writing profession disagreed with them.

p. 182

 

Twenty-Four Hours


 A.A. Thought For The Day

Third, alcoholics recover their proper relationship with other people.
they think less about themselves and more about others. They try to
help other alcoholics. They make new friends so that they're no
longer lonely. They try to live a life of service instead of selfishness.
All their relationships with other people are improved. They solve
their personality problems by recovering their personal integrity, their
faith in a Higher Power, and their way of fellowship and service to
others. Is my drink problem solved as long as my personality problem
is solved?

Meditation For The Day

All that depresses you, all that you fear, is really powerless to harm
you. These things are but phantoms. So arise from earth's bonds,
from depression, distrust, fear, and all that hinders your new life.
Arise to beauty, joy, peace, and work inspired by love. Rise from
death to life. You do not even need to fear death. All past sins are
forgiven if you live and love and work with God. Let nothing hinder
your new life. Seek to know more and more of that new way of living.

Prayer For The Day

I pray that I may let God live in me as I work for Him. I pray that I
may go out into the sunlight and work with God.




Daily Thought


 ^*^*^*^*^

(\    ~~    /)

(    \(AA)/    )

(_ /AA\ _)

/ AA \

^*^*^*^*^

Insecurity

 

The achievement of freedom from fear is a lifetime undertaking, one that can never be wholly completed. When under heavy attack, acute illness, or in other conditions of serious insecurity, we shall all react, well or badly, as the case may be. Only the vainglorious claim perfect freedom from fear, though their very grandiosity is really rooted in the fears they have temporarily forgotten.

Bill W., January 1962

c. 1988 AA Grapevine, The Language of the Heart, p. 265 

 


Thought to Consider . . .
O
nce we clear a hurdle, it doesn't seem so high.

 

 

*~*AACRONYMS*~*


T R U S T
Try Relying Upon Steps and Traditions



DAILY REFLECTIONS

 

FREEDOM FROM "KING ALCOHOL"

. . . let us not suppose even for an instant that we are not

under constraint. . . . Our former tyrant, King Alcohol,

always stands ready again to clutch us to him Therefore,

freedom from alcohol is the great "must" that has to be

achieved, else we go mad or die.

AS BILL SEES IT, p. 134

 

When drinking, I lived in spiritual, emotional, and

sometimes, physical confinement. I had constructed my

prison with bars of self-will and self-indulgence, from

which I could not escape. Occasional dry spells that

seemed to promise freedom would turn out to be little more

than hopes of a reprieve. True escape required a

willingness to follow whatever right actions were needed to

turn the lock. With that willingness and action, both the

lock and the bars themselves opened for me. Continued

willingness and action keep me free—in a kind of extended

daily probation—that need never end.

 

 

 

POT LUCK

 

 

What’s Really Wrong

                    

              Our sickness is not that we abuse substances. Our sickness is that we suffer from character defects that lead us to believe we can fix our lives by using substances. I will feel better, I will feel good, I will feel that I've really got my problems licked, I tell myself, if only…       

 

 

I drink some booze….

I snort some coke…

I eat some food..

 

 

              Then, two or three hours later, or two or three days later, I am totally wasted, totally wrecked, and what will I have fixed? Absolutely nothing. For two or three hours, or two or three days, two or three week, I will have had a fantasy that I was in power. Then I'll come to, on the floor, or on the street or in the detox center, and how powerful will I be then? How able will I be to control my life?

 

 

              We cannot do it on our own. Just because we grow up and have sex lives and jobs and make money and have children does not mean that we know what we're doing. Being old enough to shave every day does not mean that we’re in charge, or right, or invincible. Being stronger than our younger brothers and stronger than our old fathers does not mean that we are God.

 

 

              We are who we are, often jerks, often stubborn fools, often frightened little boys. For most of us, it Is not until we are brought to our knees by our substance abuse — by our total inability to control our using — that we finally admit we are not in charge. When we come to the program and we finally admit that we need help.  

 

 

              Our inability to ask for help, our insistence on doing it on our own, our unwillingness to share with others — these  are the root causes of our using. Instead of asking for the help we need from others, we have used substances that make us feel we do not need help. We have put ourselves above the common fate of humans — needing each other — and for that violation we have been outcast into the solitary hells of drinking ourselves blind  and drugging ourselves goofy and eating ourselves sick.

 

 

              Once we come to the program we stop kidding ourselves. We stop kidding others. We drop from our shoulders the intolerable, impossible weight of running the world on our own. Here in the program we get down to right size, and right habits and it's the most amazing thing in the world — because now we’re in the world, the real world — but most things are not as bad as we made them out to be. Most people aren't as bad as we made them out to be.

 

 

              Sure, there is suffering, there is misery, there is injustice. But there's also love, tolerance, and understanding. There are opportunities to relieve suffering and misery, opportunities to serve justice. If we are willing to work with our fellow humans. If we are willing to be “a friend among friends, to be a worker among workers, to be a useful member of society.”

 

 

              If we are willing to put our pride and our self-centeredness in the background and work with our fellows for change, there is nothing we can't do. In time. With love. And trust.

 

““What’s Really Wrong?” . Stepping Stones to Recovery for Men (Hazelden 1992) # 37 pp. 68-71. June 12

 

 

 

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AA Membership Survey 2022

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Committee Consideration

from the 73rd General Service Conference

In response to a Committee Consideration from the 73rd General Service Conference

regarding any possible future changes to literature written by A.A.’s founders,

 that committee agreed it would be beneficial to gather shared experience

from the Fellowship regarding this topic.

Questionaire

 

How Should We Treat A.A. Founders' Writings?

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DR. PAUL O.
There is More to Quitting Drinking Than Quitting Drinking
(Audio Book)

Introduction
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RICHMOND WALKER & THE TWENTY-FOUR HOUR BOOK
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Talk given at the 8th Annual National A.A. Archives Workshop, Fort Lauderdale, Florida
Sept. 27, 2003

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Loving Kindness Meditations

 

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12 Step Meditations

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These are 12 meditations,

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The Lights are On

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Recovery Speakers

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Miscellaneous Sources

Living Life Fully

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Twenty Four Hours a Day

Since 1954, Twenty-Four Hours a Day has become a stable force in the recovery of many alcoholics

throughout the world. With over nine million copies in print (the original text has been revised),

this "little black book" offers daily thoughts, meditations, and prayers for living a clean and sober life.

A spiritual resource with practical applications to fit our daily lives.

Copyright 1975 Hazeleden Foundation

 

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Prayables

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Daily Thought

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