Your Daily Reprieve 04.08.26

 

Your Daily Reprieve for Wednesday April 8, 2026   From Waynesville, NC

God built and blessed us with natural appetites and longings.  In a broken world, he also knows better than we do that we all carry personal wounds.  He knows how easily, particularly on low days, anyone can take a shortcut to a good feeling.  When he commanded us not to steal, or lie, or commit adultery, he was saying:  don't do those things to yourself.  Because God loves us so thoroughly,  I am certain that "don't" can be a most positive word.    -Mark DeMoss   “Let today's troubles be sufficient to today.” “Distilled Spirits,” Indianapolis, Indiana, August 1982, AA Grapevine     Invest in the “process” rather than the product.  Process living neutralizes the depleting and impoverishing effects of chronically living in anticipation.  Even when impossible goals occasionally are reached, satisfactions derived from them are invariably disappointing  unless the process has given ample satisfaction along the way.    -Theodore Rubin   "I only need one meeting a week, but I don't know which day, so I go everyday." ~ Walter M. Dothan, AL

BIG BOOK QUOTE   We have no desire to convince anyone that there is only one way by which faith can be acquired. If what we have learned and felt and seen means anything at all, it means that all of us, whatever our race, creed, or color are the children of a living Creator with whom we may form a relationship upon simple and understandable terms as soon as we are willing and honest enough to try.   P28

Daily Share!     AA Speaker of the Day     TAMMY F. Prattville, AL @51st Florida State Convention 02.20.1960   https://bit.ly/4m9hb0H     ZOOM Loose Garment Group https://us02web.zoom.us/j/238977518 Saturday & Sunday 9AM EST ID: 238 977 518 PW: 004 394

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12&12   Tradition Eleven - "Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio, and films." In the beginning, the press could not understand our refusal of all personal publicity. They were genuinely baffled by our insistence upon anonymity. Then they got the point. Here was something rare in the world--a society which said it wished to publicize its principles and its work, but not its individual members. The press was delighted with this attitude. Ever since, these friends have reported A.A. with an enthusiasm which the most ardent members would find hard to match. p. 182

Twenty-Four Hours  A.A. Thought For The Day Second, alcoholics recover their faith in a Power greater than themselves. They admit that they're helpless by themselves and they call on that Higher Power for help. They surrender their lives to God, as they understand Him. They put their drink problem in God's hands and leave it there. They recover their faith in a Higher Power that can help them. Have I recovered my faith? Meditation For The Day You must make a stand for God. Believers in God are considered by some as peculiar people. You must even be willing to be deemed a fool for the sake of your faith. You must be ready to stand aside and let the fashions and customs of the world go by, when God's purposes are thereby forwarded. Be known by the marks that distinguish a believer in God. These are honesty, purity, unselfishness, love, gratitude, and humility. Prayer For The Day I pray that I may be ready to profess my belief in God before others. I pray that I may not be turned aside by the skepticism and cynicism of unbelievers.

Daily Thought  ^*^*^*^*^ (\    ~~    /) (    \(AA)/    ) (_ /AA\ _) / AA \ ^*^*^*^*^ Resentments Few people have been more victimized by resentments than have we alcoholics. It mattered little whether our resentments were justified or not. A burst of temper could spoil a day, and a well - nursed grudge could make us miserably ineffective. Nor were we ever skillful in separating justified from unjustified anger. As we saw it, our wrath was always justified. Anger, that occasional luxury of more balanced people, could keep us on an emotional jag indefinitely. These emotional "dry benders" often led straight to the bottle. Other kinds of disturbance - jealousy, envy, self-pity, or hurt pride - did the same thing. c. 1952 AAWS, Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, p. 90 Thought to Consider . . . Anger is the hot wind that extinguishes the light of reason.   *~*AACRONYMS*~* C A L M Can Anger Leave Me?

DAILY REFLECTIONS   AN INSIDE LOOK We want to find exactly how, when, and where our natural desires have warped us We wish to look squarely at the unhappiness this has caused others and ourselves By discovering what our emotional deformities are, we can move toward their correction. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 43   Today I am no longer a slave to alcohol, yet in so many ways enslavement still threatens—my self, my desires, even my dreams. Yet without dreams I cannot exist; without dreams there is nothing to keep me moving forward. I must look inside myself, to free myself. I must call upon God's power to face the person I've feared the most, the true me, the person God created me to be. Unless I can or until I do, I will always be running, and never be truly free. I ask God daily to show me such a freedom!

POT LUCK   "You’ll never have it all together. That’s  like eating once and for all."   I’ve wasted a lot of time and energy waiting for everything to be just right, but it’s never turned out that way. I felt if only I could get that perfect job and make a certain amount of money, then I’d finally stop worrying. I did get the job, and I made even more money, yet I still had financial insecurity. I hoped that when I met the right woman, then I’d be complete. Turned out that was a complete mess. Finally, I knew that if I could only control and enjoy my drinking, then everything would be okay. Instead, I ended up in A.A. As I sat in meetings for the first few months, I was sure that if I could only get ninety days, then I’d be okay. Then, at the nine-month mark, I hoped I’d feel a lot better at a year. Then I waited to complete my Steps—for the second time! My experience has been that parts of my life get better, but there are always other areas that need work. And sometimes, areas that I thought were fixed need some attention again. As I struggled to accept this, my sponsor reminded me of today’s quote. When I remember that I’ll never have it all together, I can finally let go of the illusion of control. What a relief I feel as I turn my will and my life, once again, over to a God of my understanding. As soon as I empty myself of my demands for the way I think things should be, I am able to accept and appreciate the way things are. As I set to work on a current gratitude list, I’m able to reflect on everything I’ve already been given. And that’s when I realize that by not having it all together, I can remain open to the unexpected gifts yet to come.

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