Your Daily Reprieve 04.01.26

 

 

Your Daily Reprieve for Wednesday April 1, 2026   From Waynesville, NC

Discernment is not knowing the difference between right and wrong; it is knowing the difference between right and almost right.  ~Charles Spurgeon   We think fear, anger, divine intimidation, threat, and punishment are going to lead people to love. We cannot lead people to the highest level of motivation by teaching them the lowest. God always and forever models the highest, and our task is merely to “imitate God.” —Richard Rohr   “Take time for solitude. How else can you contemplate the blessings of recovery,” —Abby Warman   “What we must realize is that we cannot see everything. We do not know everything. More important, we must understand that it is impossible for us to control anything. The process of life is a spiritual one, governed by invisible, intangible spiritual laws and principles.” —Iyanla Vanzant

BIG BOOK QUOTE   We missed the reality and the beauty of the forest because we were diverted by the ugliness of some of its trees. We never gave the spiritual side of life a fair hearing.   P50

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12&12   Tradition Ten - "Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the A.A. name ought never be drawn into public controversy." The Washingtonian Society, a movement among alcoholics which started in Baltimore a century ago, almost discovered the answer to alcoholism. At first, the society was composed entirely of alcoholics trying to help one another. The early members foresaw that they should dedicate themselves to this sole aim. In many respects, the Washingtonians were akin to A.A. of today. Their membership passed the hundred thousand mark. Had they been left to themselves, and had they stuck to their one goal, they might have found the rest of the answer. But this didn't happen. Instead, the Washingtonians permitted politicians and reformers, both alcoholic and nonalcoholic, to use the society for their own purposes. Abolition of slavery, for example, was a stormy political issue then. Soon, Washingtonian speakers violently and publicly took sides on this question. Maybe the society could have survived the abolition controversy, but it didn't have a chance from the moment it determined to reform America's drinking habits. When the Washingtonians became temperance crusaders, within a very few years they had completely lost their effectiveness in helping alcoholics. p. 178

Twenty-Four Hours   A.A. Thought For The Day Since I've been in A.A., have I made a start toward becoming more honest? Do I no longer have to lie to my loved ones? Do I try to have meals on time, and do I try to earn what I make at work? Am I trying to be honest? Have I faced myself as I really am and have I admitted to myself that I'm no good by myself, but have to rely on God to help me do the right thing? Am I beginning to find out what it means to be alive and to face the world honestly and without fear? Meditation For The Day God is all around us. His spirit pervades the universe. And yet we often do not let His spirit in. We try to get along without His help and we make a mess of our lives. We can do nothing of any value without God's help. All our human relationships depend on this. When we let God's spirit rule our lives, we learn how to get along with others and how to help them. Prayer For The Day I pray that I may let God run my life. I pray that I will never again make a mess of my life through trying to run it myself.

Daily Thought ^*^*^*^*^ (\    ~~    /) (    \(AA)/    ) (_ /AA\ _) / AA \ ^*^*^*^*^ Motives   We were depressed and complained we felt bad, when in fact we were mainly asking for sympathy and attention. This odd trait of mind and emotion, this perverse wish to hide a bad motive underneath a good one, permeates human affairs from top to bottom. This subtle and elusive kind of self-righteousness can underlie the smallest act or thought. Learning daily to spot, admit, and correct these flaws is the essence of character building and good living. An honest regret for harms done, a genuine gratitude for blessings received, and a willingness to try for better things tomorrow will be the permanent assets we shall seek. c. 1952 AAWS Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, pp. 94-95     Thought to Consider . . . The best things in life aren't things     *~*AACRONYMS*~* O U R Openly Using Recovery

DAILY REFLECTIONS     LOOKING WITHIN Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 42 Step Four is the vigorous and painstaking effort to discover what the liabilities in each of us have been, and are. I want to find exactly how, when, and where my natural desires have warped me. I wish to look squarely at the unhappiness this has caused others and myself. By discovering what my emotional deformities are, I can move toward their correction. Without a willing and persistent effort to do this, there can be little sobriety or contentment for me. To resolve ambivalent feelings, I need to feel a strong and helpful sense of myself. Such an awareness doesn't happen overnight, and no one's self-awareness is permanent. Everyone has the capacity for growth, and for self-awareness, through an honest encounter with reality. When I don't avoid issues but meet them directly, always trying to resolve them, they become fewer and fewer.

POT LUCK     "If I just had more, better, different, I’d be okay."     Before I had a program, I was always searching for something outside of myself to make me feel okay. I was sure that if I could only get more money, a better job, or a different relationship, or if I lived in a different house in a different neighborhood, then I would finally feel better about myself. When none of these things worked, I concentrated on drinking more, getting better quality wines, or trying different types of premium alcohol. In the end, this didn’t work either.   When I entered the rooms of recovery in Hollywood, California, I suddenly saw a group of people who seemed to have more, better, and different things from me. As I watched famous actors, successful businesspeople, and movers and shakers mingle in seemingly exclusive groups and then drive away in their Mercedes and BMWs, I felt distinctly less than. When I told my sponsor this, he told me I would never be happy as long as I compared my insides with someone else’s outsides.   What I have learned over the years is that sobriety, serenity, and recovery are truly an inside job. Only by working the Steps will I find the true peace and contentment I’ve always searched for in outside things. I now know that believing more or better or different will make me feel okay is a lie that my alcoholism still tells me. It is a lie that will always lead me to a drink. Today, I know that the path to feeling comfortable in my own skin starts with being grateful for what I have and with trying to give away what I have found. When I remember that, I realize I’m more than just okay; I’m blessed.

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