Your Daily Reprieve 03.31.26

 

 

Your Daily Reprieve for Tuesday March 31, 2026   From Waynesville,NC

To finally surrender ourselves to healing, we need to have three spaces opened within us—and all at the same time: our opinionated head, our closed-down heart, and our defensive and defended body. That is the work of spirituality.   —Richard Rohr   We must all do our work. Be accountable and go heal, simultaneously, continuously. It’s never too late. Each of us is precious. We, together, must break every cycle that makes us forget this.   — adrienne maree brown       In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.  ~Theodore Roosevelt     "Life got immeasurably easier for me when I got passionate about taking responsibility for my own situations while deferring any responsibility for your life situations to you..." --Unknown

BIG BOOK QUOTE   Our human resources, as marshalled by the will, were not sufficient; they failed utterly.   P45

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12&12   Tradition Ten - "Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the A.A. name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Maybe this sounds as though the alcoholics in A.A. had suddenly gone peaceable, and become one great big happy family. Of course, this isn't so at all. Human beings that we are, we squabble. Before we leveled off a bit, A.A. looked more like one prodigious squabble than anything else, at least on the surface. A corporation director who had just voted a company expenditure of a hundred thousand dollars would appear at an A.A. business meeting and blow his top over an outlay of twenty-five dollars' worth of needed postage stamps. Disliking the attempt of some to manage a group, half its membership might angrily rush off to form another group more to their liking. Elders, temporarily turned Pharisee, have sulked. Bitter attacks have been directed against people suspected of mixed motives. Despite their din, our puny rows never did A.A. a particle of harm. They were just part and parcel of learning to work and live together. Let it be noted, too, that they were almost always concerned with ways to make A.A. more effective, how to do the most good for the most alcoholics. pp. 177-178

Twenty-Four Hours   A.A. Thought For The Day Since I've been in A.A., have I made a start toward being more unselfish? Do I no longer want my own way in everything? When things go wrong and I can't have what I want, do I no longer sulk? Am I trying not to waste money on myself? And does it make me happy to see my family and my home have enough attention from me? Am I trying not to be all "get" and no "give"? Meditation For The Day Each day is a day of progress, steady progress forward, if you make it so. You may not see it, but God does. God does not judge by outward appearance. He judges by the heart. Let Him see in your heart a simple desire always to do His will. Though you may feel that your work has been spoiled or tarnished, God sees it as an offering for Him. When climbing a steep hill, people are often more conscious of the weakness of their stumbling feet than of the view, the grandeur, or even of the upward progress. Prayer For The Day I pray that I may persevere in all good things. I pray that I may advance each day in spite of my stumbling feet.

Daily Thought ^*^*^*^*^ (\    ~~    /) (    \(AA)/    ) (_ /AA\ _) / AA \ ^*^*^*^*^ Keynotes We can try to stop making unreasonable demands upon those we love. We can show kindness where we had shown none. With those we dislike we can begin to practice justice and courtesy, perhaps going out of our way to understand and help them. Whenever we fail any of these people, we can promptly admit it - to ourselves always, and to them also, when the admission would be helpful. Courtesy, kindness, justice, and love are the keynotes by which we may come into harmony with practically anybody. c. 1952 AAWS Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, p. 93     Thought to Consider . . . Let us always love the best in others - and never fear the worst     *~*AACRONYMS*~* H O W Honest, Open-minded and Willing

DAILY REFLECTIONS   NO ONE DENIED ME LOVE On the A. A. calendar it was Year Two. . . . A newcomer appeared at one of these groups. . . . He soon proved that his was a desperate case, and that above all he wanted to get well . . . [He said], "Since I am the victim of another addiction even worse stigmatized than alcoholism, you may not want me among you." TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, pp. 141-42   I came to you—a wife, mother, woman who had walked out on her husband, children, family. I was a drunk, a pill-head, a nothing. Yet no one denied me love, caring, a sense of belonging. Today, by God's grace and the love of a good sponsor and a home group, I can say that—through you in Alcoholics Anonymous—I am a wife, a mother, a grandmother and a woman. Sober. Free of pills. Responsible. Without a Higher Power I found in the Fellowship, my life would be meaningless. I am full of gratitude to be a member of good standing in Alcoholics Anonymous.

POT LUCK     "It’s not old behavior if I’m still doing it."   I often don’t let go of things until they are causing more pain than pleasure. When my drinking was killing me, I stopped, and even though it was really hard at first, I found that being sober was actually the easier, softer way. But I had a lot of old ideas and behaviors that still worked for me sometimes. Letting go of these was not so easy.  As I sat in meeting after meeting, I heard that “The result was nil until we let go absolutely,” but I never really understood the full impact of this statement. I mean, I was still getting results—I was clean and sober, I got my job back, and I began repairing broken relationships. But there were also times when I was intensely unhappy and irritable, and I needed and wanted a drink. It took a long while for me to see that these feelings almost always followed old ways of thinking and behaving.  The longer I’m in recovery, the more I understand the value of Steps Six and Seven. My old behaviors will continue just as long as I remain unwilling to give up the character defects that cause them. But when I do become willing, something wonderful happens: my Higher Power does for me what I can’t do for myself. He relieves me of my old ways of thinking and acting, which allows more joy and freedom to flow into my life. Today, I continue to pray for my old behavior to be removed, even if I’m still doing it.

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