Your Daily Reprieve 01.16.26

Your Daily Reprieve for Friday January 16, 2026

From Waynesville, NC

There is nothing in the world so irresistibly contagious

as laughter and good humor.
~Charles Dickens

“My willingness to have my defects of character removed

was bolstered by the realization that little, if any,

spiritual growth was possible as long as

I held on to my old ideas and defects.”

~Brighton, Colorado, November 1970

"The feeling of being 'offended' is a warning indicator

that is showing you where to look within yourself

for unresolved issues."

~Bryant McGill

Passion is the love of turning being into action.

It fuels the engine of creation.

It changes concepts to experience. . .

Never deny passion for that is to deny

Who You Are, and Who You Truly Want To Be.
~Neale Donald Walsch

Big Book Quote

Even so has God restored us all to our right minds. To this man, the revelation was sudden. Some of us grow into it more slowly. But He has come to all who have honestly sought Him.

P57

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Quite a while later, Ed got a sales job which took him out of town. At the end of a few days, the news came in. He'd sent a telegram for money, and everybody knew what that meant! Then he got on the phone. In those days, we'd go anywhere on a Twelfth Step job, no matter how unpromising. But this time nobody stirred. "Leave him alone! Let him try it by himself for once; maybe he'll learn a lesson!"

p. 144

Twenty-Four Hours

A.A. Thought For The Day

The A.A. program is more a way of building a new life
than just a way of getting over drinking, because in A.A.
we don't just stop drinking. We did that plenty of times
in the old days when we went "on the wagon." And, of
course, we always started to drink again, because we were
only waiting for the time when we could fall off. Once
we've gotten sober through the A.A. program, we start
going uphill. In our drinking days, we were going downhill,
getting worse and worse. We either go down or up. Am I
going uphill, getting better and better?

Meditation For The Day

I will try to obey God's will day in and day out, in the
wilderness plains as well as on the mountaintops of
experience. It is in the daily strivings that perseverance
counts. I believe that God is Lord of little things, the
Divine Controller of little happenings. I will persevere
in this new way of life. I know that nothing in the day
is too small to be a part of God's scheme.

Prayer For The Day

I pray that the little stones which I put into the mosaic
of my life may make a worthwhile pattern. I pray that I
may persevere and so find harmony and beauty.

Daily Thought

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Amends

"Though the variations were many, my main theme was always "How godawful I am!" Just as I often exaggerated my modest attainments by pride, so I exaggerated my defects through guilt. I would race about, confessing all (and a great deal more) to whoever would listen. Believe it or not, I took this widespread exposure of my sins to be great humility on my part, and considered it a great spiritual asset and consolation! But later on I realized at depth that the great harms I had done others were not truly regretted. These episodes were merely the basis for storytelling and exhibitionism."
Bill W., AA Grapevine, June 1961
c. 1967 AAWS, As Bill Sees It, p. 311

Thought to Consider . . .
Don't mess up an amends with an excuse.

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Fools Every Alcoholic Repeatedly

DAILY REFLECTIONS

HITTING BOTTOM

Why all this insistence that every A.A. must hit bottom first?

The answer is that few people will sincerely try to practice

the A.A. program unless they have hit bottom. For

practicing A. A. 's remaining eleven Steps means the

adoption of attitudes and actions that almost no alcoholic

who is still drinking can dream of taking.

TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 24

Hitting bottom opened my mind and I became willing to try

something different. What I tried was A.A. My new life in

the Fellowship was a little like learning how to ride a bike

for the first time: A.A. became my training wheels and my

supporting hand. It's not that I wanted the help so much at

the time; I simply did not want to hurt like that again. My

desire to avoid hitting bottom again was more powerful

than my desire to drink. In the beginning that was what kept

me sober. But after a while I found myself working the

Steps to the best of my ability. I soon realized that my

attitudes and actions were changing—if ever so slightly.

One Day at a Time, I became comfortable with myself, and

others, and my hurting started to heal. Thank God for the

training wheels and supporting hand that I choose to call

Alcoholics Anonymous.

POT LUCK

"If you don’t change, your sobriety date will."

When I was new, it was suggested that I begin making some changes. First, it was recommended that I go to ninety meetings in ninety days. Next, it was suggested I get a sponsor, read the first 164 pages of the Big Book, and start working the Steps. My sponsor also suggested I stop hanging around my drinking buddies—and not start dating for at least a year. A lot of my life was changing except the most important part: me.

For the first several months, I felt like I was auditing the program more than I felt like I was totally committed. The old me couldn’t wrap my head around the concept of never drinking again. When you told me I needed to be willing to go to any lengths to get what you had, I wasn’t sure what it was that you did have and wasn’t sure I wanted it. It’s no wonder that at ninety days, facing the Fourth Step, I chose to drink again.

Luckily I took your suggestion and kept coming back to meetings. I didn’t do it perfectly—I drank between meetings sometimes—but I did keep trying. Finally, someone I respected confronted me after my regular Saturday night meeting. I had raised my hand as a newcomer yet again, and afterward he got in my face. While everyone else had been understanding and encouraging, he had had enough. “Quite f@#king around!” he snapped at me. “This isn’t a game. You need to stay sober and work the program.” Well, that was the wake-up call I needed. I committed to the program and all the changes that were asked of me. And I haven’t had to change my sobriety date since.

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