Your Daily Reprieve 01.05.26

 

 

Your Daily Reprieve for Monday January 5, 2026

 

From Waynesville, NC

 

 

 

"In the recovery world, it's a higher power that helps you.

You have to turn your life over to something greater.

Anytime I tried to control my life, I had screwed it up."

~Chris Mullin

 

 

“As long as I am acting in a loving and caring manner,

I am not responsible for how others react.

This frees me from pleasing people at my own emotional expense.”

~Temple, Texas, March 1983

 

“To be grateful is to recognize the Love of God

in everything He has given us

- and He has given us everything.

Every breath we draw is a gift of His love,

every moment of existence is a grace,

for it brings with it immense graces from Him.
Gratitude therefore takes nothing for granted,

is never unresponsive, is constantly awakening to new wonder

and to praise of the goodness of God.

For the grateful person knows that God is good,

not by hearsay but by experience.

And that is what makes all the difference.”    - Thomas Merton

 

 

Without Divine intervention I will always wind up believing that how I feel is the most important thing in the Universe.

~Don M.  (Woodstock 2017)

 

 

Big Book Quote

 

If a mere code of morals or a better philosophy of life

were sufficient to overcome alcoholism,

many of us would have recovered long ago.

P44,45

 

 

Daily Share!

 

 

AA Speaker of the Day

 

 

CYNDI M.

Louisville, KY,

Serenity Improvement Group

11.9.21

 

https://bit.ly/4bhElP4

 

 

 

 

Celebrate Your Anniversary Here

SHOW NEWCOMERS HOW IT WORKS!!

 

JANUARY 2025 Miracles

 

 

1/1 Terri M. (Pleasant Hill, CA)…..49

1/1 Bob V. (Basking Ridge, NJ)…..42

1/1 John S. ….37

1/1 Phil L. (Palm Coast, FL)…..32

1/1 Mike M. (Manhasset, NY)…..1

1/1 Kingsley C. (Fordingbridge, Hampshire, UK)…..13

1/1 Severine Z. (Sacramento, CA)…..9

1/1 Deirdre K. (Madison NJ)…..21

1/1 Maura Mc. (Greenwich, CT)…..20

1/2 Bob C. (Jacksonville, FL)…..36

1/2 Roger M. Kennebunk, ME)…..4

1/2 Tara M. (New York, NY)…..11

1/2 Gregory B. (New York, NY)…..14

1/3 William W. (Whispering Pines, NC)…..38

1/3 Johny R. (Stuart, FL)…..49

1/4 Kevin J. (Bristol, RI)…..35

1/4 Linda B. (Memphis, TN)…..29

1/5 Tim G. (Dallas, TX)…..14

1/6 Caitlin R. (Westhampton Beach, NY)…..1

1/6 George R. (Stratham, NH)…..14

1/6 Mary B. (Key Largo, FL)…..20

1/6 Ann OK-B. (Greenwich, CT)…..47

1/6 Mike S. (Orange Park, FL)…..20

1/7 Luke T. (Nantucket)…..7

1/7 Michelle S. (Canton MI)…..5

1/7 Robert W. (Gatineau, Quebec)…..32

1/7 Alexis R. (Devon, UK)…..24

1/7 Liz O. (New York, NY)…..22

1/8 Alan J.(Woodstock, NY)…..18

1/8 Alan H. (Gainesville, GA) …..10

1/8 Jollylou (Sarasota, FL)…..13

1/9 Patty A. (Waynesville, NC)…..1

1/9 Ginger S. (Aberdeen, NC)…..17

1/9 Tefft S. …..41

1/10 Shree F. (Silver Spring, MD)…..37

1/10 Tim S. (Ringwood, UK)…..20

1/10 Paula B. (Charleston, SC)…..43

1/10 Kelly S. (Methuen/Tampa)…..37

1/10  Bill H. (Charlotte, NC)…..7

1/11 Linda K. (Lake Hiawatha, NJ)…..5

1/12 David F. (Calgary, Canada)…..13

1/13 David S. (Newport, RI)…..40

1/13 Stephanie B. (Falkville, AL)…..1

1/13 Hope C. (Orlando, FL)….1

1/13 Tara M. (Larchmont, NY)…..13

1/13 Robbi H. (Port Charlotte, FL)…..44

1/14 Calvin A. (Rockville, MD)…..1

1/14 Dot C. (Acton, MA)…..13

1/14 Jo M. (Port Charlotte, FL)…..22

1/15 Sue J. (Palm Coast, FL)…..16

1/15 Parrish M. (NC)…..7

1/16 Marta C. (Germantown, MD)…..1

1/16 Bonnie S. (Charleston, SC)…..41

1/16 Chip S. (Birmingham, AL)…..23

1/17 Carol C. (Sarasota, FL)…..4

1/17 Jenny P. (Flemington, NJ)…..33

1/17 Helen C. (Dover, UK)…..54

1/18 Mike H. (East Dorset, VT)…..39

1/18 Paul O’ (Ireland)…..15

1/19 Bill W.(Sun City Center, FL) …..31

1/20  Rick S. (Sarasota, FL)…..41

1/20 Dan D. (Sun City Center, FL)…..17

1/21 Rob B. (Simpsonville, SC)…..10

1/21 Liz M. (NY)…..27

1/21 Heather N.(Wylie, TX) …..29

1/22 Stacey C. (Lancaster, PA)…..19

1/22 Daylene L. (Litchfield Park, AZ)…..21

1/22 Erin M. (Salem, NH)…..7

1/23 Mike C. (Solon, OH)…..11

1/24 Vito (Saratoga Springs, NY)…..34

1/25 PJ C. (Bel Air, MD)…..11

1/25 Susan G. (Guelph, ON)…..1

1/26 Ann S. (Stuart, FL)…..34

1/26 Manny T. (Montreal, Canada)…..4

1/29 Geri O. (Tucson, AZ)…..39

1/30 Al L. (White Plains, NY)…..40

1/31 Pat B. (Oneida, NY)…..37

1/31 Sandy W. (East Hampton/Naples)…..30

1/31 Bob P. (Jacksonville, NC)…..42

1/31 Kim J. (Streator, IL)…..15

 

 

1731 Total Years of Sobriety

 

 

 

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12&12

 

Tradition Three - "The only requirement for A.A. membership is a desire to stop drinking."

"We were resolved to admit nobody to A.A. but that hypothetical class of people we termed `pure alcoholics.' Except for their guzzling, and the unfortunate results thereof, they could have no other complications. So beggars, tramps, asylum inmates, prisoners, queers, plain crackpots, and fallen women were definitely out. Yes sir, we'd cater only to pure and respectable alcoholics! Any others would surely destroy us. Besides, if we took in those odd ones, what would decent people say about us? We built a fine-mesh fence right around A.A.
"Maybe this sounds comical now. Maybe you think we oldtimers were pretty intolerant. But I can tell you there was nothing funny about the situation then. We were grim because we felt our lives and homes were threatened, and that was no laughing matter. Intolerant, you say? Well, we were frightened. Naturally, we began to act like most everybody does when afraid. After all, isn't fear the true basis of intolerance? Yes, we were intolerant."

p. 140

 

 

Twenty-Four Hours

                                           


 A.A. Thought For The Day

Have I turned to a Higher Power for help? Do I believe
that each man or woman I see in A.A. is a demonstration
of the power of God to change a human being from a
drunkard into a sober, useful citizen? Do I believe that
this Higher Power can help me from drinking? Am I living
one day at a time? Do I ask God to give me the power to
stay sober for each twenty-four hours? Do I attend A.A.
meetings regularly?

Meditation For The Day

I believe that God's presence brings peace and that peace,
like a quiet flowing river, will cleanse all irritants
away. In these quiet times, God will teach me how to rest
my nerves. I will not be afraid. I will learn how to relax.
When I am relaxed, God's strength will flow into me. I
will be at peace.

Prayer For The Day

I pray for that peace which passes all understanding.
I pray for that peace which the world can neither give
nor take away.




 

Daily Thought

^*^*^*^*^
(\    ~~    /)
(     \(AA)/     )
(_ /AA\ _)
/AA\
^*^*^*^*^
Trudging

"Abandon yourself to God as you understand God. Admit your faults to Him and to your fellows. Clear away the wreckage of your past. Give freely of what you find and join us. We shall be with you in the Fellowship of the Spirit, and you will surely meet some of us as you trudge the Road of Happy Destiny. May God bless you and keep you - until then."
c.1976 AAWS
Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 164

Thought to Consider . . .

I didn't know how sick I was until I started getting better.

*~*AACRONYMS*~*

O D A A T
One Day At A Time


 


DAILY REFLECTIONS

 

TOTAL ACCEPTANCE

He cannot picture life without alcohol Some day he will be

unable to imagine life either with alcohol or without it.

Then he will know loneliness such as few do. He will be at

the jumping-off place. He will wish for the end.

ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 152

 

Only an alcoholic can understand the exact meaning of a

statement like this one. The double standard that held me

captive as an active alcoholic also filled me with terror and

confusion: "If I don't get a drink I'm going to die,"

competed with "If I continue drinking it's going to kill me."

Both compulsive thoughts pushed me ever closer to the

bottom. That bottom produced a total acceptance of my alcoholism—

with no reservations whatsoever—and one that

was absolutely essential for my recovery. It was a dilemma

unlike anything I had ever faced, but as I found out later on,

a necessary one if I was to succeed in this program.

 

 

 

 

 

 

POT LUCK

 

Let Go, Let God

 

I let go, let God, and welcome the new year.

 

As I look back upon this year, I may be visited by all kinds of memories, pleasant ones and others I might want to forget.

 

Letting go means eliminating all that no longer serves me, forgiving others or myself for things said or done. Releasing feelings of guilt or resentment over a past that cannot be changed frees me to welcome a future of opportunity and delight.

 

Letting God means I will not limit my future by holding rigid ideas of how it should unfold. I will dream big and set goals for the coming year, welcoming God's grace in ways that may surpass what I can imagine.

 

 

I say goodbye to the old year with a fresh, unburdened mind and heart. I let go and let God as I welcome the new year.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

**NEW**

Excellent Resource

Blogs, Audio and Video Articles

 

https://takethe12.org/

 

*****

 

"AA Recovery Interviews" Podcast

https://aarecoveryinterviews.com

 

Blog

http://todaysreprieve.blogspot.com/

 

 

Wee Willie’s

Sobriety First Media

AA CD’s Literature and tapes

https://www.mediafire.com/sobrietyfirst

 

 

AA Membership Survey 2022

Alcoholics Anonymous 2022 Membership Survey | Alcoholics Anonymous

 

 

Committee Consideration

from the 73rd General Service Conference

In response to a Committee Consideration from the 73rd General Service Conference

regarding any possible future changes to literature written by A.A.’s founders,

 that committee agreed it would be beneficial to gather shared experience

from the Fellowship regarding this topic.

Questionaire

 

How Should We Treat A.A. Founders' Writings?

 https://bit.ly/3uhEPBK

 

 

 

DR. PAUL O.
There is More to Quitting Drinking Than Quitting Drinking
(Audio Book)

Introduction
http://bit.ly/1IlFBbp

Part I
http://bit.ly/1MPV5Za

Part II
http://bit.ly/1Ksd9eA

Part III
http://bit.ly/1GQCGGE

Part IV
http://bit.ly/1Ip0hn8

AA CDs Literature and tapes
https://www.mediafire.com/sobrietyfirst

 

 

 

ZOOM MEETINGS

 

Loose Garment Group

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/238977518

Saturday & Sunday….Pot Luck…0900

ID: 238 977 518

PW: 004 394

 

 

 

ARCHIVES

 

 

AA World Service Board Meeting Highlights

October 2023

 https://bit.ly/3GlcOvE

 

 

 

A New Pair of Glasses in PDF (download) is available at:

https://bit.ly/4bUr0Js

 

 

Bill Schaberg

Writing The Big Book

Video Readings

https://www.youtube.com/@billschaberg8911/videos

 

BIG BOOK for DUMMIES

https://bigbookfordummies.com/

 

 

 

*Angel Force USA

www.AngelForceUSA.com

 

Angel Force USA is a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization.

OUR MISSION

STOP SUISILENCE

The avoidance of discussion about suicide

Our goal is to raise awareness of the military suicide epidemic.

 

 

 

RICHMOND WALKER & THE TWENTY-FOUR HOUR BOOK
Glenn C. (South Bend, Indiana)
Talk given at the 8th Annual National A.A. Archives Workshop, Fort Lauderdale, Florida
Sept. 27, 2003

https://www.prestongroup.org/aa_docs/24_hours_a_day.txt

 

 

 

MEDITATIONS

http://www.11thstepmeditation.org/

 

Loving Kindness Meditations

 

With Music

 

http://www.excelatlife.com/mp3/direct_download.php?file=lovingkindnessmusic.mp3

 

 

Voice only

http://www.excelatlife.com/mp3/direct_download.php?file=lovingkindness.mp3

 

*****

Free Guided Meditations

http://marc.ucla.edu/body.cfm?id=22

Resources

 

Great Minds Quotes

https://twitter.com/GreatestQuotes

 

 

 

MOOJI GUIDED Meditation

http://bit.ly/2Ogwe9v

 

 

**Podcasts**

https://boiledowlaa.org/

https://www.aagrapevine.org/podcast

 

 

12 Step Meditations

 www.stepmeditation.com

 

These are 12 meditations,

each about 12 minutes long and the content

(other than the meditation instructions)

are straight from the text of the big book and 12 & 12

(created by Matt H.)

 

 

Speaker Recordings

 

Wee Willie’s

Sobriety First Media

AA CD’s Literature and tapes

https://www.mediafire.com/sobrietyfirst

*****

 

The Lights are On

http://xa-speakers.org/

 

 

Recovery Speakers

http://recoveryspeakers.com/

 

Miscellaneous Sources

Living Life Fully

http://www.livinglifefully.com/

 

 

Twenty Four Hours a Day

Since 1954, Twenty-Four Hours a Day has become a stable force in the recovery of many alcoholics

throughout the world. With over nine million copies in print (the original text has been revised),

this "little black book" offers daily thoughts, meditations, and prayers for living a clean and sober life.

A spiritual resource with practical applications to fit our daily lives.

Copyright 1975 Hazeleden Foundation

 

Tammy’s recovery links

http://www.bluidkiti.com/forums/

 

AA Photo Archives

http://www.rewritables.net/cybriety/aa_photos.htm

 

Heard at A Meeting

https://twitter.com/heardinameeting

 

Breast Cancer Site

Take a minute and click to provide free mammograms

https://thebreastcancersite.greatergood.com/clickToGive/bcs/home

 

MEN FIGHTING CANCER TOGETHER

America’s largest volunteer men’s cancer support group

and advocacy national nonprofit organization.

http://malecare.org/

 

 

Prayables

http://prayables.org/

 

 

Daily Thought

http://groups.google.com/group/TransitionsDaily

 

Speaker Recordings

Stories of Recovery - A 12-Step Collection

https://storiesofrecovery.org/index.html

 

 


 

 

Comments

  1. My 28th anniversary is on January 7th. I live in Warren, NJ.

    Thanks Tom.

    ReplyDelete

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