Thursday, December 24, 2015

Your Daily Reprieve 12.24.15



Your Daily Reprieve for Thursday December  24, 2015

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The truth that many people never understand, until it is too late, is that the more you try to avoid suffering the more you suffer because smaller and more insignificant things begin to torture you in proportion to your fear of being hurt. ~Thomas Merton

Every morning you are handed 24 golden hours. They are one of the few things in this world that you get free of charge. If you had all the money in the world, you couldn't buy an extra hour. What will you do with this priceless treasure? --Anonymous

Christmas has lost its meaning for us because we have lost the spirit of expectancy. We cannot prepare for an observance. We must prepare for an experience.--Handel H. Brow

Christmas time is like a smokey fire that wraps itself around you. There's warmth in it, a smell to it, a fragrance oh so subtle. It weaves a spell of nostalgia with good memories...and some...not so good. What will this Chrismas day bring for you? Blessings. After today, you are all in. Pause for a moment while anticipation is high, resolve to keep your spirit strong through joy, dissappointment, triumph, and loss. God is with you in your reflection.
~Prayables


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12/22 Dick M. (New York City)…..38
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12/31 Ian M. (Dublin via Oz)…..21
12/31 Jake R. (Murphy, NC)…..40
12/31 Galia P.(Jerusalem)…..8
12/31 Kevin C. (Whitinsville, MA)…..14

1277 Total Years of Sobriety
12&12

Step Eleven - "Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out."

We also fall into another similar temptation. We form ideas as to what we think God's will is for other people. We say to ourselves, "This one ought to be cured of his fatal malady," or "That one ought to be relieved of his emotional pain," and we pray for these specific things. Such prayers, of course, are fundamentally good acts, but often they are based upon a supposition that we know God's will for the person for whom we pray. This means that side by side with an earnest prayer there can be a certain amount of presumption and conceit
in us. It is A.A.'s experience that particularly in these cases we ought to pray that God's will, whatever it is, be done for others as well as for ourselves.

p. 104

Twenty Four Hours

A.A. Thought For The Day

We have been given a new life, just because we happened to become alcoholics. We
certainly don't deserve the new life that has been given us. There is little in our past to
warrant the life we have now. Many people live good lives from their youth on, not getting into serious trouble, being well adjusted to life, and yet they have not found all that we drunks have found. We had the good fortune to find Alcoholics Anonymous and with it a new life. We are among the lucky few in the world who have learned a new way of life. Am I deeply grateful for the new life that I have learned in A.A.?

Meditation For The Day

A deep gratitude to the Higher Power for all the blessings which we have and which we don't deserve has come to us. We thank God and mean it. Then comes service to our fellow men, out of gratitude for what we have received. This entails some sacrifice of ourselves and our own affairs. But we are glad to do it. Gratitude, service, and then
sacrifice are the steps that lead to good A.A. work. They open the door to a new life for us.

Prayer For The Day

I pray that I may gladly serve others, out of deep gratitude for what I have received. I
pray that I may keep a deep sense of obligation.


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Amends
"Though the variations were many, my main theme was always 'How godawful I am!' Just as I often exaggerated my modest attainments by pride, so I exaggerated my defects through guilt. I would race about, confessing all (and a great deal more) to whoever would listen. Believe it or not, I took this widespread exposure of my sins to be great humility on my part, and considered it a great spiritual asset and consolation! But later on I realized at depth that the great harms I had done others were not truly regretted. These episodes were merely the basis for storytelling and exhibitionism."
Bill W., AA Grapevine, June 1961
c. 1967AAWS, As Bill Sees It, p. 311

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Thought to Consider . . .
Don't mess up an amends with an excuse.

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W H O   M E ? =
Willingness, Honesty, Open-mindedness, Must Exist




Daily Reflection

A "SANE AND HAPPY USEFULNESS"

We have come to believe He would like us to keep our heads
in the clouds with Him, but that our feet ought to be firmly
planted on earth. That is where our fellow travelers are,
and that is where our work must be done. These are the
realities for us. We have found nothing incompatible
between a powerful spiritual experience and a life of sane
and happy usefulness
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 130

All the prayer and meditation in the world will not help me
unless they are accompanied by action. Practicing the
principles in all my affairs shows me the care that God
takes in all parts of my life. God appears in my world when
I move aside, and allow Him to step into it.


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KEEPING CHRISTMAS

By Henry Van Dyke (1905)

There is a better thing than the observance of Christmas day, and that is, keeping Christmas.
Are you willing...

*to forget what you have done for other people, and to remember what other people have done for you;
*to ignore what the world owes you, and to think what you owe the world;
*to put your rights in the background, and your duties in the middle distance, and your chances to do a little more than your duty in the foreground;
*to see that men and women are just as real as you are, and try to look behind their faces to their hearts, hungry for joy;
*to own up to the fact that probably the only good reason for your existence is not what you are going to get out of life, but what you are going to give to life;
*to close your book of complaints against the management of the universe, and look around you for a place where you can sow a few seeds of happiness.

Are you willing to do these things even for a day? Then you can keep Christmas.
Are you willing...

*to stoop down and consider the needs and desires of little children;
*to remember the weakness and loneliness of people growing old;
*to stop asking how much your friends love you, and ask yourself whether you love them enough;
*to bear in mind the things that other people have to bear in their hearts;
*to try to understand what those who live in the same home with you really want, without waiting for them to tell you;
*to trim your lamp so that it will give more light and less smoke, and to carry it in front so that your shadow will fall behind you;
*to make a grave for your ugly thoughts, and a garden for your kindly feelings, with the gate open—

Are you willing to do these things, even for a day? Then you can keep Christmas.
Are you willing...

*to believe that love is the strongest thing in the world—
stronger than hate, stronger than evil, stronger than death—
and that the blessed life which began in Bethlehem nineteen hundred years ago is the image and brightness of the Eternal Love?

Then you can keep Christmas.

And if you can keep it for a day, why not always?

But you can never keep it alone. 


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