Your Daily Reprieve 04.13.26

 

Your Daily Reprieve for Monday April 13, 2026   From Waynesville, NC

Our workaday lives are filled with opportunities to bless others. The power of a single glance or an encouraging smile must never be underestimated. ~G. Richard Rieger     For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin -- real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way.  Something to be got through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life. --Alfred D'Souza     Today I know that the light at the end of the tunnel is an old-timer walking ahead of me with a lantern. ~anonymous     If you are having a problem with Higher Power today, Imagine the problem Higher Power is having with you. ( heard at an AA meeting... thanks Stu K.)

BIG BOOK QUOTE   The barriers he had built through the years were swept away. He stood in the Presence of Infinite Power and Love. He had stepped from bridge to shore. For the first time, he lived in conscious companionship with his Creator.   P56

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12&12   Tradition Twelve - "Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our traditions, ever reminding us to place principles before personalities." But in the beginning, anonymity was not born of confidence; it was the child of our early fears. Our first nameless groups of alcoholics were secret societies. New prospects could find us only through a few trusted friends. The bare hint of publicity, even for our work, shocked us. Though ex-drinkers, we still thought we had to hide from public distrust and contempt. p. 184

Twenty-Four Hours  A.A. Thought For The Day Having found my way into this new world by the grace of God and the help of A.A., am I going to take that first drink, when I know that just one drink will change my whole world? Am I deliberately going back to the suffering of that alcoholic world? Or am I going to hang onto the happiness of this sober world? Is there any doubt about the answer? With God's help, am I going to hang onto AA. with both hands? Meditation For The Day I will try to make the world better and happier by my presence in it. I will try to help other people find the way God wants them to live. I will try to be on the side of good, in the stream of righteousness, where all things work for good. I will do my duty persistently and faithfully, not sparing myself. I will be gentle with all people. I will try to see other people's difficulty and help them to correct it. I will always pray to God to act as interpreter between me and the other person. Prayer For The Day I pray that I may live in the spirit of prayer. I pray that I may depend on God for the strength I need to help me to do my part in making the world a better place.

Daily Thought ^*^*^*^*^ (\    ~~    /) (    \(AA)/    ) (_ /AA\ _) / AA \ ^*^*^*^*^ Courage   I looked around me at people who seemed happy and tried to analyze their happiness, and it seemed to me that without exception these people had something or somebody they loved very much. I didn't have the courage to love; I was not even sure I had the capacity. Fear of rejection and its ensuing pain were not to be risked . . .  c. 1976 AAWS, Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 546  (does not appear in 4th Edition)      Thought to Consider . . .  Courage is fear that has said its prayers.   *~*AACRONYMS*~*   A A Altered Attitudes

DAILY REFLECTIONS     THE FALSE COMFORT OF SELF-PITY Self-pity is one of the most unhappy and consuming defects that we know. It is a bar to all spiritual progress and can cut off all effective communication with our fellows because of its inordinate demands for attention and sympathy. It is a maudlin form of martyrdom, which we can ill afford. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 238   The false comfort of self-pity screens me from reality only momentarily and then demands, like a drug, that I take an ever bigger dose. If I succumb to this it could lead to a relapse into drinking. What can I do? One certain antidote is to turn my attention, however slightly at first, toward others who are genuinely less fortunate than I, preferably other alcoholics. In the same degree that I actively demonstrate my empathy with them, I will lessen my own exaggerated suffering.

POT LUCK     Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around. ~Leo Buscaglia   Today's Meditation: It's true--we do underestimate the power of these things. I'm not sure why. Perhaps we just think that people don't really need our input in their lives, or maybe we're just used to people not encouraging us or sharing kind words or compliments with us. In my case, when I was younger I never thought that my words to others had the power to affect them at all, for positive or negative; as I've aged, though, I've learned that almost everything I say has some effect, somehow, and not always how I'd like. While we certainly don't want to overestimate the power of things like these--we're not going to solve anyone's problems with a listening ear, or completely turn their lives around with a smile--we should always keep in mind that the things that turn people's lives around generally are a bunch of things together, and our smile or compliment will be a part of a greater whole, a whole that gives someone hope or peace, and that would be incomplete without our contribution. With my students, sometimes I find out years later that some small compliment I gave them was important to them, though I never would have guessed it. So I've given up guessing, and whenever I might have any doubt, I give the compliment or the kind word anyway--it's better to err on the side of the positive than the negative. Leo Buscaglia spent much of his life teaching us about the power of loving one another, and he told us many beautiful stories about love and loving. Here he tells us that we do have power to help others, to make them feel good about life and living. And if we do have that kind of power in our hands, shouldn't we use it more?

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