Your Daily Reprieve 03.03.17

Your Daily Reprieve for  Friday  March    3,  2017 From Waynesville, NC

It is not that anger and desire are inherently evil or that we should feel ashamed when they arise. It is a matter of seeing them as the delusions that they are: distorted conceptions that paint a false picture of reality. They are negative because they lead to unhappiness and confusion. -Kathleen McDonald, "How to Meditate" Let us slow down enough to truly notice all that is presenting itself to us as blessing. ~Kristi Nelson "Stop being scared of failing. Be scared of not trying. Remember - the best things in life are waiting for you at the exit ramp of your comfort zone!!" ~Karen Salmansohn "In order to change we must be sick and tired of being sick and tired." ~Anonymous Restraint is a spiritual principle. ~Unknown

Big Book Quote "Carry this message to other alcoholics! You can help when no one else can. You can secure their confidence when others fail. Remember they are very ill." ~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, Working With Others, pg. 89~

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Celebrate Your Anniversary Here SHOW NEWCOMERS HOW IT WORKS!! MARCH 2017 Anniversaries 3/1 Erich O. (Honolulu, HI).....5 3/1 Rich W. (Astoria, NY).....2 3/1 Mike Mc. (White Plains, NY).....6 3/2 Liz C. (White Plains, NY).....8 3/3 Ilene W. (Los Angeles, CA).....42 3/3 Steve H. (Middletown, NJ).....11 3/3 Kelly T. (Newmarket, NH).....26 3/5Russel N. (Hermosa Beach, CA).....3 3/5 Tom M. (Stuart, FL/Waynesville, NC).....23 3/6 Courtney C. (Brunswick, GA).....6 3/9 Andy W. (City Island / WFMG).....30 3/12 Athol (Cardigan, PEI, CA).....7 3/13 Sue S.(Naples, FL).....5 3/14 Kay Z. (North Port, FL).....24 3/16 John S. (Boonton, NJ).....4 3/16 Billy I. (Islington, MA).....32 3/17 Dan D. (Tortola, BVI).....38 3/17 Susan C. P. (North Port, FL).....27 3/17 Nard B. (Bridgewater, NJ).....4 3/17 Carolyn W. (nantucket., MA).....20 3/18 Shannon L. (Cardigan, PEI, CA).....1 3/19 Mike B. (Purchase, NY).....17 3/20 Carlos L. Jr. (Carolina, PR).....7 3/21 Margie W. (Sant Cruz, CA).....30 3/21 Kate A. (Nyack, NY).....29 3/21 Pamela B. (New Jersey).....33 3/21 Carlos L. Sr. (Bridgeport, CT).....22 3/25 Buffy H. (Gambier, OH/Nantucket, MA).....25 3/27 Chuck L. (Key Largo, FL).....30 3/27 Cathy C-T (Palm City, FL)..... 3/28 Tara S. (Pasadena, CA).....33 3/28 Mike H. ().....30 3/29 Cliff k. (Philadelphia, PA).....12 3/29 Robin S. (NYC, NY).....24 0610   Total Years of Sobriety

12&12 Step Twelve - "Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs." Most married folks in A.A. have very happy homes. To a surprising extent, A.A. has offset the damage to family life brought about by years of alcoholism. But just like all other societies, we do have sex and marital problems, and sometimes they are distressingly acute. Permanent marriage breakups and separations, however, are unusual in A.A. Our main problem is not how we are to stay married; it is how to be more happily married by eliminating the severe emotional twists that have so often stemmed from alcoholism. p. 117

Twenty-Four Hours A.A. Thought For The Day After we've made a surrender, the drink problem is out of our hands and in the hands of God. The thing we have to do is to be sure that we never reach out and take the problem back into our own hands. Leave it in God's hands. Whenever I'm tempted to take a drink, I must say to myself: "I can't do that. I've made a bargain with God not to drink. I know God doesn't want me to drink and so I won't do it." At the same time I say a little prayer to God for the strength needed to keep the bargain with Him. Am I going to keep my bargain with God? Meditation For The Day I will try to grow in this new life. I will think of spiritual things often and unconsciously I will grow. The nearer I get to the new life, the more I will see my unfitness. My sense of failure is a sure sign that I am growing in the new life. It is only struggle that hurts. In sloth--physical, mental or spiritual--there is no sense of failure or discomfort. But with struggle and effort, I am conscious not of strength but of weakness, until I am really living the new life. But in the struggle, I can always rely on the power of God to help me. Prayer For The Day I pray that I may see signs of my growth in the new life. I pray that I may always keep trying to grow.

Daily Thought ​​​^*^*^*^*^ (\    ~~    /) (    \(AA)/    ) (_ /AA\ _) / AA \ ^*^*^*^*^ Entirely Ready It is plain for everybody to see that each sober A.A. member has been granted a release from this very obstinate and fatal obsession. So in a very complete and literal way, all A.A.'s have "become entirely ready" to have God remove the mania for alcohol from their lives. And God has proceeded to do just that. c. 1952 AAWS, Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions,  p. 64 Thought to Consider . . . I stood in the sunlight at last. *~*AACRONYMS*~* S T E P S Solutions To Every Problem in Sobriety

Daily Reflection OVERCOMING SELF-WILL So our troubles, we think, are basically of our own making. They arise out of ourselves, and the alcoholic is an extreme example of self-will run riot, though he usually doesn't think so. Above everything, we alcoholics must be rid of this selfishness. We must, or it kills us! ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 62 For so many years my life revolved solely around myself. I was consumed with self in all forms—self-centeredness, self-pity, self-seeking, all of which stemmed from pride. Today I have been given the gift, through the Fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous, of practicing the Steps and Traditions in my daily life, of my group and sponsor, and the capacity—if I so choose—to put my pride aside in all situations which arise in my life. Until I could honestly look at myself and see that I was the problem in many situations and react appropriately inside and out; until I could discard my expectations and understand that my serenity was directly proportional to them, I could not experience serenity and sound sobriety.

Pot Luck One could say that I had a happy childhood, although I showed little talent for being happy. -- Samuel Beckett Our choices in relationships, careers, lifestyle, and expression of feelings and talents are often the result of our upbringing. Has the social climate changed significantly since our childhood? Have our family systems changed? Can we find ways to change old, ineffective behaviors? Recovery offers us the gifts of responsibility and self-forgiveness. Now, as we begin to change, we can let go of the past and its pain. Our ability to change often starts by embracing our inner selves with forgiving, adult arms. In this act, we take responsibility for our own happiness, nurturing ourselves toward the new life we are finding in recovery. We are earning our own love in a whole new way. We respect and honor our physical selves with rest, exercise, and nutritional food. We stimulate our minds with new ideas and experiences. And we send our spirits soaring through conscious contact with our Higher Power. We feel worthy of love, and even have enough to give some away. Now we are learning the talent for being happy. Today grant me the power of self-forgiveness and the gift of hope. You are reading from the book: Body, Mind, and Spirit by Anonymous

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Beyond Your Wildest Dreams  11th Annual Women’s AA Retreat “A Journey Through the Steps” When:   Saturday, April 29, 2017, 9:00 am to 9:00 pm  Cost: Simple 7th Tradition Basket for Donation before each meeting What to Bring:   An Open Mind, A Covered dish to Share, The 12/12 Step Book Where:  Tierney Auditorium (Formerly Maris Stella) 50th and Ocean Drive, Avalon, NJ Details:   There will be speakers for the 12 Steps, along with food and fellowship.  We will cover Steps 1 - 7 in the morning, break for lunch and a beach walk from 12:30 to 2, and then begin with Step 8 through 12 in the afternoon, early evening  is for fun!    AA Skit Planned and other fun things!  Bring a friend!!       Like and Follow Us on Facebook:   https://www.facebook.com/BeyondYourWildestDreams/ Contact for Questions or to Get involved:  Valerie or Suzanne beyondmywildestdreamsavalon@gmail.com

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